After calling Orion (they were nice to answer the phone on a Saturday), they said they can't say anything about using alcohol but they do have an optics cleaning kit to sell.
So I tried to find the ingredient of this cleaning kit, but instead found this, which is from the skyandtelescope web page:
For tougher dirt or stains, various lens-cleaning solutions are
available. Good ones are pure isopropyl alcohol or methyl alcohol
(methanol), available in drug stores and hardware stores,
respectively. Standard, diluted isopropyl rubbing alcohol works well
too and is easier to find, but avoid alcohol preparations with other
ingredients that may leave stains. Camera shops sell lens-cleaning
fluids such as Crystal Clear, which is pure methanol, but you can get
methanol much cheaper in a hardware store. Also available are “lens
pens” with a soft, retractable, solvent-impregnated cleaning pad.
When cleaning lenses, apply fluid to your cleaning pad, not the lens
itself. You don't want any fluid to seep in around the lens's edges;
it may carry dissolved gunk to glass surfaces inside and leave stains
where you can't reach them.
And this cloudynights web page supports this information:
The cleaning solution I use is 91% pure isopropyl alcohol. A pint
bottle is less than two dollars, and is useful to have around the
house anyway. Q-Tips are the 100% cotton type. They are used to apply
the cleaning solution, and remove the excess.
A word on the alcohol. The 91% pure isopropyl alcohol contains two
ingredients on the label, alcohol and purified water. Alcohol
evaporate easily at room temperature, and leaves no residue. Purified
water will not leave a residue, but will take longer to evaporate.
Some rubbing alcohols may contain lanolin or other oils to prevent the
alcohol from excessively drying the skin. These should be avoided.
Read the label. We want alcohol and water as the only ingredients.
So in conclusion, 90%+ isopropyl alcohol (the other 10% being water) is actually recommended to use on eyepieces after dust is removed and if the alcohol is applied to a cleaning material to wipe on the eyepiece, not directly onto the eyepiece so that it does not seep through the lens. This is wonderful because alcohol kills any virus and bacteria as a bonus!
What I plan to do will be taping a big piece of Saran wrap that covers the eyepiece, and use a new piece each time. It'll be a big hassle, but I don't have enough time to get the 90% or pure isopropyl alcohol now.
Update: The little gathering was a success! I initially had a rubber band to hold the Saran wrap down, but after 2 minutes it got dropped into the grass and couldn't be found. Since I wanted to reduce any wrinkles in the Saran wrap and hold it taut, using tape was not practical, so I ended up using my hands to hold a large sheet of wrap for each family. We saw Jupiter, Saturn, and Mars!
Update #2: This is the response from Orion, and they discourage using alcohol, so be cautious, maybe test it on a tiny spot first with a tiny amount.
Original Inquiry: Can I use alcohol
wipes to disinfect the multi coated Orion E Series 7-21mm Zoom
eyepiece?
Thank you for contacting Orion Telescopes & Binoculars. We do not
recommend using alcohol wipes on any optics , as this could damage the
coatings on the lenses. You can on the outside of the lens but not
anywhere near the glass lens. We would recommend cleaning fluid for
the lens.
https://www.telescope.com/Orion/Orion-Optics-Cleaning-Fluid-for-Coated-Lenses/rc/2160/p/5810.uts?keyword=fluid
Please do not hesitate to contact us if you have any further questions
or concerns!
Thank you, Leanne Customer Service Orion Telescopes & Binoculars