The Failures of High Magnification
Higher magnification doesn't help you observe deep sky objects better. Deep sky objects unlike stars are extended objects. They subtend a finite solid angle on you. This ensures that the surface brightness(brightness per unit solid angle) of extended objects remains constant. Hence, a higher magnification would not make it brighter for you to see.
It is worse for another reason. After a certain magnification, the apparent angular size of the extended object becomes comparable to the field of view, or sometimes even greater. Your eye won't be able to distinguish the object against the background since most of the background is the object itself.
Good Uses of Barlow
Some of the uses that you can put your Barlow:
- Observe the Moon, Solar System objecs
- Some of the clusters which seem like point objects really "explode" when using a Barlow. The best example is Omega Centauri.
Experiences
I have a 8" Dobsonian Newtonian Reflector. The viewfinder is 20x80. I really get a better picture of deep sky objects like Ring Nebula, which have a small angular size, when using Barlow. But for cases like Lagoon and Trifid Nebula; they are visible to me from my viewfinder but not through the eyepiece(even in the lowest magnification).
Conclusion
Barlow really helps if you have a deep sky object with small angular size. For larger objects, a binocular may do better, especially for city conditions.